Friday, May 14, 2010

How to Be a Strong Woman


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Many women want to learn how to be a strong woman. Many already actually are strong women, but oftentimes need a reinforcement to remind them and empower them. Others are only a step away from being strong; they just need a boost to propel them to strengthen their feminine qualities. Here's how to be a strong woman:

1. Take Control/Take Action!

Unfortunately it can be very easy for women to fall into the role of feeling the need to get permission for everything or be advised on nearly all decisions. The role of a strong woman should be that of taking control and taking action. This doesn't mean blindly making choices for the sake of making choices solely on one's own. It means listening and processing the advice and direction others provide, taking it all under advisement, but ultimately making the decision based primarily on your own wants, needs, and personal feelings.

2. Embrace your femininity!

All too often one who tries to be a strong women, tries to simply mimic male behavior. This is not how to be a strong woman. This is just being a woman, but acting like a man in order to appear superior or strong. Faking it basically. Being a strong woman means embracing your femininity, flaunting it and never hiding it, yet at the same time taking control, taking action, getting things done and being yourself.

3. Have a Plan!

Women are excellent at planning, but sometimes we only limit our planning skills to everything but our own lives, our own passions, and our own goals. Always have a plan for your life. It makes taking control and taking action easy and effective. I follow motivational plans all the time. 6 week take action plans where I fulfill my goals and desires, and my time lines for getting there. These are incredibly fun, motivating and productive. A strong woman has a plan, and follows through!

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