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Many of us have about what people think - look around, as we do, how we dress, what we do affects how you speak, how many degrees are there, because we are rich or poor, and so on. We prefer to please. We like to change our behavior. Say small lies, because we are not afraid to find the truth. Sometimes we give our health by holding on crash diets please, is congestion in the gym, it is time now when we are tired of resorting to anorexia or bulimia. We eat things we hate, weThings that we do not like, and we feel with people who do not enjoy - all in an effort to please. Whether a certain person that we feel compelled to like or everything we do - does not matter.
I like it there? Who knows? And frankly, who cares?
The crux of the matter is that most people are so absorbed in themselves that they do not realize or think of them all. They worry about worry, after what they say or think about what to cook for dinner or what they doSales next call. And if you do not care enough to resist and to critically assess why worry if you please, anyway? Probably not as if you were the smartest, most beautiful, most interesting people in the world, because it is not about you - it is about them.
This is a problem of self-esteem.
When it comes to how and who you are, you're less concerned about what anyone thinks of any. Do you know who you are and you do not needto be like everyone else. It 'a fact that there should be people on the planet, exactly the same thing and is becoming. We can not all models of the track or muscle men. We can not all on the right side of the bell curve will be intellectually or financially. We can not all famous and infamous. What we can see exactly who we are.
Some people even go to improve something or someone you are not. They get their hair done as a movie star and try toDress, walk and talk like them (or him). Will not work. Self Improvement Real tuning always involves more than what they really are, and fine-tuning that: - the improvement of your assets and debt reduction - for you and not to please others. For example, if I have a beautiful voice and I like to sing, that I can improve something, so how can there be more to enjoy. . If I like cooking, I want to learn everything I can about food, nutrition and cooking - for my pleasure.If I like writing, I want to improve my writing skills just for fun. Who knows - a benefit to help me improve my account that you can add many others, or to please her, or put me in the middle. But the person that I need you I am.
One rule is: "The better I feel about me, the more I feel able to give to others." The point of departure? What is an honest assessment of your strengths - Get someone to help you if you need it. Start EndDo you agree with your strength. Many times, if you do this to comply with the weakness in himself. And anyway, what others think of me is not my business.
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