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Many couples hold to the idea that a stay in a marriage, including a high-conflict, the better for the children of a family divided. Broken too often the term "home", assumes that there is something wrong in substance, the divorce. It conveys the image that children whose parents are divorced and one disadvantage for those whose parents are still married.
It's better for an unhappy couple to stay married for the sake of the children too? The impact of the argumentsat home can be harmful to the child, if these conflicts lead to divorce or not. Appears that damage the impact of the conflict. If divorce ends the conflict between parents, children, even better than those who continue to experience emotional escalation of conflict between the parents.
The emotional well-being of parents also affects the emotional well-being of children. If the parents are determined to continue in aHigh-conflict marriage, the parents are suffering. Since the suffering of the parents, the child does, if the arguments or not to live. Mothers in unhappy marriages are likely to have depression and tension. Even if the marriage does not have a lot of conflict, but the spouses are unhappy, this calamity, and the resentment of the spouse of a parent affects their ability to support their children.
In many cases, divorced parents may reside in separate healthier, happierParents. Facilitated by a turbulent marriage, divorce of parents, parents often better. Parents became much more relaxed in many unhappy marriages and even mood after the divorce. Often, more time and energy to focus on children as they could during the marriage. This can be a great benefit to children. Children are often more relaxed themselves.
Divorced parents can be better role models for their children. During a high-conflict marriage, each spousespends an enormous amount of energy is trapped in turmoil. After a divorce can find parents who are able to use this energy to achieve their interests and objectives that would not otherwise. Children pay attention to these things. Who observe their parents, who once consumed with tearing each other, working to improve their lives.
Judging friends, family and members of the community, it is possible for the decision to divorce is based. Ifthere is no hope for marriage, is not suitable for children during their stay with us. Two happy, divorced parents are better than two parents had an unhappy marriage.
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