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If you started the journey of marriage, we find that smooth and without holes. But we all know, as we navigate through the many holes in the success of the trip will be determined. Now you want to know how to survive a separation bed. This is good. Divorce is like amputation, you can survive, but it feels as if it were not for you. And it is worse if you do not want a divorce.
So, how can a marriage survive separation? In this way, four things:
Forgive. Yourself, "I am ... that wipes out your transgressions, for my sake, and remembers your sins no more" (Isaiah 43: 25 NIV). God forgives and forgets, and he will give grace to forgive yourself , too.
Forgive those who have hurt you. Forgiveness is the only force that you always have someone that hurts you. So forgive, until the past do not control. Share your steadfastness and forgiveness! Only you can forgive and forget the bass and. Move
Take your time. Do not make big changes right now. Are you on a emotional roller coaster, again in the balance between the desire of your partner and your partner want to suffer. They are vulnerable to the comments of other people and simply to those who pay attention drawn to himself. Slow down! Healthy people make healthy choices, in order to spend time with the reading of the Word of God, pray for advice, and so become a whole.
Start giving back. "Your God isgracious and merciful. He will not turn their faces from you when you return to him "(2 Chronicles 30: 9 NIV). Realize God has not turned its back on what you can" comfort those in trouble with the comfort you have received from God. " (2 Corinthians 1, 4 NIV) If this happens always, your future is bright and your possibilities endless.
If you want to survive a rule of separation of marriage is not God's process, the child may have only the best in your opinionnot be the best way out. And pay attention mainly to the fact of tips from people who cheat on their spouses or unwilling to succeed in your marriage.
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