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One way to get on someone's good side and make them feel good is to give out compliments. But, the compliments need to be real, not just made up for the sake of complimenting someone. If you compliment someone for something that really deserves one, you will make that person feel good and you yourself will feel good about it.
Everyone likes to be complimented about things they have done, it helps boost the ego. When dating, giving compliments is smart when they are deserved as long as they are truly from the heart. Think of them as ego boosters or little gifts but you should not expect anything in return.
Make the compliment specific, point out something they did, something they are wearing or something specific about them. Then add to the complement why you think so. Example would be something like: Your new glasses look great, followed up with, they go really good with your hair color or eyes.
For many, giving a compliment is not easy. You can feel kind of awkward or shy about it. But if the other person is someone close, you should have no problem. If you want to use a compliment as means of breaking the ice with a man, go ahead, but make sure you make the compliment on something real about him that truly catches your eye.
So go ahead and start giving out those compliments were they are deserved and make you and the receiver feel good about yourselves.
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